Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Be realistic--the blues may sneak up
First, get this straight. If your family is more Jerry Springer than Rebecca at Sunnybrook Farm, you are not alone.
The holidays are tough, because family members are thrown in a room together sometimes. The big wad-up, as one woman I know calls it. Alcohol may be served. Uh-oh.
Also, you are supposed to be cheery and thrilled. You must be! What is wrong with you?
Uh, no money to buy presents, age-old gripes, perversity, who knows.
Too much sugar, food tox from rich delicious stuff, too little sleep, stomping around malls…it adds up.
Then when it’s formally over, you feel let down. Drat—not even irritation and exhaustion to look forward to.
Some tips from Banner Hospitals in Phoenix:
Remember, it’s about a birth, a great past moment.
Don’t expect much to change from last year.
Invite people who will pitch in and help. Let the slugs go to their own party (Banner did not say that, I did).
Go look at lights other people put up if you don’t feel like doing it.
Yes—it’s the end of the year, a natural time to sort of sum up and if the sum isn’t what you want, well, regroup.
You get another try.