Tuesday, May 23, 2017

The first visit to the gynecologist

I remember--waaay back in the Wayback--my first visit. The doctor said, "You will do this a million times in your life, so here is how to do it." Zip, zip, kind of embarrassing and gross--but fast.

Julie Jacobstein, a board-certified adolescent gyno with LifeBrige Health, has some tips you can pass on to your daughter:

--Explain why this visit is important, even though your daughter is not sick and has no complaint. This is a safe place to ask questions (without your mother being present). Often, the first time is just to establish a relationship--the "exam" part may not even take place.

--Tell your daughter this involves her medical history--including questions about whether she is sexually active. Also--bring your vaccination history.

--Explain the two parts of the exam. The breast exam and the pelvic exam. Emphasize that all this is over with quickly, which it is, although it can be a little uncomfortable--be honest.

--If your daughter wants to, discuss concerns beforehand--what if your child wants birth control--will she tell you or involve you in the types?

--After, ask her how it went. Your daughter may share a lot or gloss over it. Is she seems disturbed by the practitioner in any way--find a different doctor.

--Tell her this will be a regular part of her health care--get her used to it.

Those stirrups--every woman encounters them at some point.

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